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About the Book

Marriage Advice for All Ages

39
Practical Activities

One activity for each year of the Haygoods' marriage — each one designed to strengthen a specific dimension of your relationship.

How to Build a Successful Marriage is a guide by Angelo and TJ Haygood, based on their 39-year journey together. The book offers 39 activities designed to nurture intimacy, enhance communication, and deepen understanding.

It is suitable for both newlyweds and seasoned couples, offering innovative solutions to common relationship challenges. The guide also provides insights for singles, helping them create connections based on mutual understanding, respect, and compatibility.

The book transcends generations and serves as a testament to their enduring love, providing an illuminating roadmap for modern relationships.

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Words from the Pages

Excerpts from the Book

Has it been easy? Absolutely Not! Has it been worth it? Absolutely! Yes!

Couples need to be intentional about building a successful marriage and their time together.

You must trust God more than you trust and believe in each other, your parents, your best friend, your guru, your therapists, yourself...

How to Build a Successful Marriage — First Edition
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How to Build a Successful Marriage

39 Activities to a Healthier & Happier Marriage

Second Edition·Now with Biblical Indexes & References

Inside the Book

What You Will Find Inside

39 Practical Activities

One activity for each year of the Haygoods' marriage — each one designed to strengthen a specific dimension of your relationship.

Biblical Foundation

Every principle is rooted in scripture, offering couples a faith-based framework for navigating marriage's challenges and joys.

Real Stories

Angelo and TJ share their own journey — including the hard parts — so you know these insights come from lived experience, not theory.

For Every Season

Whether you are newly married or decades in, the activities meet you where you are and help you grow from there.

Reader Voices

What Readers Are Saying

This first book by Angelo & TJ Haygood is a must read for married couples the world over. Whether just starting out, or trying to restore your marriage later in life, I know these two people well. I know their journey. They are the real deal.

Sophia A. Nelson

Opinion Columnist, USA TODAY · Best-selling author of The Woman Code

This book is awesome! Impactful application and insights for the newly married, and wonderful for the more seasoned.

Chad Macy

Austin, Texas

A practical book filled with bite-sized gems of wisdom to help couples stay engaged and encouraged throughout the days, weeks, months, and years of an enduring marital relationship.

Sheryl R. Brinkley

San Francisco Bay Area, California

Angelo and TJ Haygood, authors of How to Build a Successful Marriage

About the Authors

Angelo & TJ Haygood

Angelo and TJ Haygood have been married for more than 43 years, since their senior year at North Carolina A&T State University. They have built a life together after over a dozen military moves from Delaware to California and Michigan to Texas, in addition to a three-year assignment in the UK. Their marriage has triumphed over tragedies and highly questionable moments — and they want to help you weather those storms too.

Their journey has not been without challenges. Through seasons of struggle, growth, disappointment, forgiveness, joy, and triumph, they have discovered that a strong marriage is not simply something couples find — it is something they intentionally build.

Their real-life experiences, deep faith in God, and hard-won wisdom form the foundation of everything they share. As authors, speakers, and marriage encouragers, they share one central mission: to help couples build stronger and healthier God-centered marriages that can help others to do the same.

Meet the Authors

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